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No Man’s Land: Still Searching for Mr. Right is the dating book for successful, single women tired of being told “You just haven’t met the right guy yet.” It’s not a millennial or former “The Bachelor” contestant’s take on the subject. Instead, it’s a refreshingly entertaining guide to dating for the otherwise-successful 40-year-old woman. The woman who kicks ass in all the other areas of her life yet hasn’t accomplished even one of the tasks on society’s romantic to-do list. This book sees her, speaks to her and is written by her. 

In this candid and hilarious book, Erin Stafford, University of Cambridge grad and VP of marketing in her day job, serves up 11 chapters with bite-sized, easy-to-digest sub-sections full of entertaining stories, social commentary, raw emotion, and honest, sometimes pointed, advice that will help women:

  • Make sense of the lies people tell them to make them feel better
  • Understand what supposedly got them to this point
  • Gain insight on the relationship lifecycle from the trenches
  • Find humor in the journey

By the end of No Man’s Land, readers will experience validation in their emotions, inspiration to keep going and a sense of community to traverse this deep sea of WTFs with in the search for Mr. Right.

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What She Said

If I want to know the absolute truth, I go to Erin. She’s a straight shooter, no-bullshit friend who doesn’t beat around the bush. Who wouldn’t want Erin in their circle of influence? She’s as sharp as a tack and makes you laugh while keeping it REAL....especially when it comes to dating. She inspires single women and married couples alike. She invigorates us all!

Elise, 54

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2016-05-03T18:07:52+00:00

Elise, 54

If I want to know the absolute truth, I go to Erin. She’s a straight shooter, no-bullshit friend who doesn’t beat around the bush. Who wouldn’t want Erin in their circle of influence? She’s as sharp as a tack and makes you laugh while keeping it REAL....especially when it comes to dating. She inspires single women and married couples alike. She invigorates us all!
Erin is the real deal. She is a confident, competent ass-kicker who, after a brief encounter with her, makes you feel like you've known her all your life. One of her greatest gifts is storytelling and thankfully she's got lots of material!! Strap in, you're in for a wild ride!

Amy, 49

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2016-05-03T18:24:44+00:00

Amy, 49

Erin is the real deal. She is a confident, competent ass-kicker who, after a brief encounter with her, makes you feel like you've known her all your life. One of her greatest gifts is storytelling and thankfully she's got lots of material!! Strap in, you're in for a wild ride!
Erin is a modern-day literary genius producing side-splitting humor wrapped in blankets of resilience. Erin’s passion, power and prowess expressed through this montage of life events is moving, inspiring and down-right funny.

April, 37

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2019-06-11T21:40:39+00:00

April, 37

Erin is a modern-day literary genius producing side-splitting humor wrapped in blankets of resilience. Erin’s passion, power and prowess expressed through this montage of life events is moving, inspiring and down-right funny.
Erin is one of the most inspiring human beings I know. Her go-getter attitude and tell-it-like-it-is approach is so refreshing. She kills it when it comes to her career, she is a world traveler and a chronic dater. Erin will crack you up with her online dating chronicles. Her stories hit all too close to home, are hilarious and all too real just like her.

Lauren, 38

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2019-06-14T17:52:15+00:00

Lauren, 38

Erin is one of the most inspiring human beings I know. Her go-getter attitude and tell-it-like-it-is approach is so refreshing. She kills it when it comes to her career, she is a world traveler and a chronic dater. Erin will crack you up with her online dating chronicles. Her stories hit all too close to home, are hilarious and all too real just like her.
Erin always tells it like it is and can laugh with me AND at herself. She is someone I love being around, because she truly enjoys life and seizes every day and opportunity; she becomes what she wants to be, because she believes she can. She’s a mover and a shaker and I am INSPIRED by her.

Karen, 43

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2019-06-14T17:52:37+00:00

Karen, 43

Erin always tells it like it is and can laugh with me AND at herself. She is someone I love being around, because she truly enjoys life and seizes every day and opportunity; she becomes what she wants to be, because she believes she can. She’s a mover and a shaker and I am INSPIRED by her.
Erin’s writing has grit and forces you to reflect on your own dating snafus. Ever tenacious, she goes into the trenches so we don’t have to. Erin manages to cripple you in laughter while taking her absolutely seriously at the same time.

Samantha, 28

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2019-06-17T16:28:32+00:00

Samantha, 28

Erin’s writing has grit and forces you to reflect on your own dating snafus. Ever tenacious, she goes into the trenches so we don’t have to. Erin manages to cripple you in laughter while taking her absolutely seriously at the same time.
Erin is an incredibly charming, straight-shooting woman of our times with her finger firmly on the pulse of what is happening (or not happening, as the case may be) in her circles. She always has a new on-point, hysterical insight to share about dating, love or life, with a healthy dose of modern feminism thrown in. Erin is a talented thinker and writer, certain to be an influencer.

Sheila, 41

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2019-06-20T22:36:22+00:00

Sheila, 41

Erin is an incredibly charming, straight-shooting woman of our times with her finger firmly on the pulse of what is happening (or not happening, as the case may be) in her circles. She always has a new on-point, hysterical insight to share about dating, love or life, with a healthy dose of modern feminism thrown in. Erin is a talented thinker and writer, certain to be an influencer.
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